How To Succeed with 50 Years of Marriage

At St. Peter’s Catholic Church in Toronto , they have weekly husband’s marriage seminars.
At the session last week, the priest asked Giuseppe, who said he was approaching his 50th wedding anniversary, to take a few minutes and share some insight into how he had managed to stay married to the same woman all these years.
Giuseppe replied to the assembled husbands, ‘Wella, I’va tried to treat her nicea, spenda da money on her, but besta of all is, I tooka her to Italy for the 25th anniversary!”
The priest responded, “Giuseppe, you are an amazing inspiration to all the husbands here! Please tell us what you are planning for your wife for your 50th anniversary?”
Giuseppe proudly replied, ” I gonna go pick her up.”

Simple – Quick Laughs!

One day Dan asks Bob, “So Bob what did you get for Christmas?”

Then Bob says to Dan, “Oh see that brand new red Ferrari outside?”
Dan says, “OOOOH WOW!!!”
Bob says, “Ya, I got the same exact color tie!”

Wife: “What are you doing?”
Husband : Nothing.
Wife : “Nothing…? You’ve been reading our marriage
certificate for an hour.”
Husband : “I was looking for the expiration date.”

Wife: Darling today is our anniversary, what should we do?
Husband: Let us stand in silence for 2 minutes.

Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. You order what you want then, when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that.

Have a wonderful day  - Play it forward – Smile and greet someone new today!

 

Surprise the Customer

It has been said that positive customer service has the following characteristics: it is a surprise to the customer, it is greater than the customer’s expectation, it is whimsical and so superb that it generates a positive buzz among other customers – and their friends.

From this we can learn that treating customers well depends upon seeing them as people who always deserve your respect, assistance and gratitude.

What are some strategies your employees can take to create a positive experience for customers?

Here are some tips:

1. Maintain a positive attitude. This is the most important element in delivering a positive experience to your customers. Appear eager to solve their concern. Take a long-term viewpoint of the importance of maintaining a relationship with each customer. Such goodwill will produce repeat business.

2. Actively listen to the customer’s needs/concerns/frustrations. Verify and clarify what you are hearing from your customer before you begin to act. Nothing is more frustrating to the customer than having to repeat his/herself because the employee is not listening OR because you are stalling for time (my printer experience).

3. Keep in mind that your customers may be very frustrated and not be at their best behavior. Stay focused on your goal – which is to resolve the issue.

4. Be honest and clear in your communications. Admit when your company has caused the problem and provide unwelcome information directly, kindly and in positive terms when needed.

5. Acknowledge the customer’s frustrations. When your company caused the problem, remember not to criticize the company!

6. Look for solutions which allow a win-win solution. Don’t blame customers for their mistakes – sometimes we as customers get it wrong.

7. Confirm that the solution is agreed by the customer and the organization’s objectives for customer service.

8. Resolve the problem. Do what you said you were going to do, keep the customer informed and follow-up with the customer to confirm satisfaction.

9. Go one step beyond what your customer expects.

10. Always thank customers. Treat them as valued partners in your organization’s ability to achieve its strategic objectives.

11. Provide the basic principles of service. My favorite office supply company always welcomes me when I walk through their doors. The greeting is always upbeat and excited – making me feel welcomed.

12. Ensure all employees (customer facing and non-customer facing) understand the organization’s objectives and values concerning customers.

Some Additional Thoughts for Improving Customer Service

Know your customers and go beyond their expectations… make them say “WOW!”

Be passionate about customer relationships.

Remember that only extremely satisfied customers are genuinely loyal; don’t assume that repeat customers are loyal customers. Your positive attitude toward your customers does not mean that the relationship is mutual (you could be the only game in town… today).

Customers who feel appreciated, respected, valued and recognized are loyal because they have an emotional connection to your company.

Only use technology which supports the customer relationship.

Hire the best of those who can become the best – train and develop them and do everything to keep them in the team.

Offer services which are above the norm within your industry.

When mistakes happen, treat them as opportunities.

Experience your own business as your customers do (Have you seen Undercover Boss?).

You are probably less customer focused than you think (check all levels of customer interfaces).

Pay attention to the little things – anticipate your customer’s needs before they become aware of them. If you listen closely, your customers will tell you how to impress them.

Customer satisfaction is worthless… Customer Loyalty is Priceless.
Good customer relationships arise from your culture… not your programs or initiatives. For example, how you treat your employees is an indicator of how you treat your customers. Hmmm!

A customer focused strategy should develop a relationship with customers which nurtures commitment and cultivates a long-lasting loyalty (both ways). It can be viewed as an attitude which relies upon genuine and expressed respect for the customer. It is an extension of your brand instilling trust, confidence and reliability.

This article is from my friend and colleague from CEOSpace, Dr. Stephanie Parson:

Dr. Stephanie Parson is the president of Crowned Grace International. She and her team deliver over 35 Leadership: From Ordinary to Extraordinary™ workshops around the world. Dr. Parson has also held executive level roles at Walt Disney World (Vice President), Parsons Brinckerhoff (Vice President & CIO), The Seagram Company (Director) and as a commissioned officer in the US Air Force. For more information, contact Dr. Parson and her team at info@crownedgrace.com or visit www.crownedgrace.com.

It’s A New Year

My wish to you in 2012 is that you have much love, life and prosperity.   And or course – Great Smiles and much laughter.

Jim Kennedy
The Corporate Smile 

 

DECEMBER

The month of December is the most stressful month of the year.  With all the holidays of different faiths and social customs along with all the shopping, entertaining and family – it’s a wonder we all make it through December alive !    Now there are some of you who LOVE this time of year (like me) and there is no stress – in fact – it’s thoroughly enjoyable (like me).

But remember – relax and enjoy this time of year.  Smile, give a cheerful greeting, hug someone and tell them you love them (hopefully it won’t be a total stranger as they’ll think this is weird).

For all of us here at The Corporate Smile – I send to you my very best wishes for what ever holiday you celebrate – and may all the sights, sounds and delicious smells of this holiday season be with you and your family forever.

~ Jim Kennedy

Become a “possibilitarian”

That’s correct.  Become a “possibilitarian.”  No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities – always see them, for they are always there.
~ Norman Vincent Peale (1898-1993) – Religious leader

THE TONE OF VOICE

It’s not so much what you say
As the manner in which you say it;
It’s not so much the language you use
As the tone in which you convey it.

“Come here!” I sharply said,
And the child cowered and wept.
“Come here,” I said – he looked and smiled
And straight to my lap he crept.

Words may be mild and fair
But the tone may pierce like a dart;
Words may be soft as the summer air
But the tone may break my heart.

For words may come from the mind
Grow by study and art -
But tone leaps from the inner self,
Revealing the state of the heart.

Whether you know it or not,
Whether you mean or care
Gentleness, kindness, love and hate,
Envy, anger are there.

Then, would you quarrels avoid
And peace and love rejoice:
Keep anger not only out of your words -
Keep it out of your voice.

R E M E M B E R …..

We all live under the same sky, but we all don’t have the same horizon.
~Konrad Adenauer (1876-1976) – First Chancellor of the Federal Republic of Germany